When you give you a little of you and give people more of you. You become easily offended by what they said about you.
Through let downs and disappointments the enemy wants you to loose you. He wants you to be offended by what people say about you or What your situation may pratray to you.
He imitate all the negative things in your life. To trip you up and believing your enough for this person or that person but you cant be ENOUGH FOR YOURSELF.
I Pray you let God use you. Minister to you and love on you. Dont build fenses around the offenses of what others have said about you but embrace what they tried to do and allow it to BUILD YOU.